Being friends with your ex.
To me, if an ex is able to stay friends with you after a breakup, it tells you that when you guys were together, they actually liked you for you, and that being with you was just a way to get to know you better. They’re a keeper if they can look past the awkwardness of the fact you guys had a thing, and be friends just like before.
Frozen margaritas by the pool side. Great Saturday afternoon :) Soo looking forward to much more of this after Pharmacy school.
But most of all, stop thinking that what people so loathingly refer to as the “friendzone” is some sort of purgatory women put “nice guys” into. My friendship is not a crappy consolation prize that you’re left with if I deny you a sexual relationship– and my body is not your reward for good behavior.
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Taylor Callobre, The “Good Guy” Myth
This is pretty much perfect in every way.
(via lavender-labia)
